I observe people. I might be spotted shamelessly staring at both the sexes in a way that would make them uncomfortable and of course, make me deliver an absofreakinglutely awkward smile when I realize what I’ve been doing.
It is very difficult to generalize a topic so cosmic especially when every statement that follows has a contradicting specimen running in your head. Since I’m more of a personality over looks kinda person, I present to you qualities, actions, expressions and gestures in men, not necessarily ‘a’ type that fall into a certain age group but an assortment of things that give a faint smile or to say the least, please the mind, things i like to come across while observing men. Simple things they do, that knowingly or unknowingly showers them with all the attention they don't grasp!

MEN are cool. There is a certain level of chilled, laid back attitude in the way they talk, walk, respond to things even though they think and analyze pretty quick. They might be dirty freaks of first order but there’s always something very cool about them. I’ve listed down a few things I love about men; most of them observed in and around college premises.

Guys who shamelessly fool around with random strangers and intelligently play well with their personality and cute looks. The content on their faces when they get smiles, signs and signals in return – priceless!

The posture wherein he’s sitting on the floor or at a low height, legs apart, hands clasped with elbows resting on the knees and torso bent forward. (refer picture may be with a kunal kapoor or hrithik roshan in it LOL)

A man with a heavy voice with lots of bass and clarity in it and let say to go with that a well maintained shabby stubble look - s.e.x.y ;-)

To see a guy silently observe a woman, and pass faint smiles very very s.e.x.y. :-)

They might speak all the trash in the world about the opposite sex, but to know that the trash talk was only confined to their brotherhood and in reality they do actually respect woman and treat women well - Thumbs Up.

A tall broad guy hugging anything smaller than him! – Double Thumbs UP! [ The best feeling EVER!]

Men turned up in formals – thumbs Up from the entire gang of girls! ;)

And very generally speaking
to watch a guy with a prominent jawline eat! (watch brad pitt : oceans’)
Veins bursting our of their forearm (atheletes/ sportsmen) or their gullet when they sing or even when they get angry,
Big rough hands (you could use them like a pillow.. That comfortable!) to list a few.

All of this might sound overly fairly tale-ish, 'only-in-your-dreams' or 'are-you-from-the-same-world-where-I-am-from' kinds, but I do know enough men with these qualities to get me back to reality! Glad to have friends n folks like them!
Also, there might be other zillion things that woman like about men, I'm not talking about the cologne they wear or their eyes or hair or anything, its more of what they do, way they talk, talk, listen, their body language...
and if you have any peculiar things to add, you can shower all of that in the comments section!

*Cheers!* ;-)


Seno said…
1. Sheepish Smile
3. Looking into your eye and complimenting
4. Patting you on your head when u r behaving childishly
5. When they put their arm over your shoulder when u feel like shit....cos they suck at speaking and just the hand support says what they better dont say:P LOL
6. Smoking nonchalantly (whatevr :P)
7. When in the middle of sternous physical activity, seeing the biceps :P:P haha ..I M INSANE :)

Ok ok m getting carried away

Men we cant live with them , cant live without them *sighs*

Happy womans day guys!! :-D

I got a gift from ma guy so as of now i can LIVE WITH EM =)) :D

IcE MaiDeN said…

Damn you woman!!!! I want one of all those NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


:D :D

suruchi said…
Hi anu...
This is an awesome post...i felt u were voicing me here becoz all that u’ve said is all that i like in my man or rather anyone would desire...
Thumbs up gurl for....
The parts about:
“To see a guy silently observe a woman, and pass faint smiles – very very s.e.x.y. :-)”
“A tall broad guy hugging anything smaller than him! – Double Thumbs UP! [ The best feeling EVER!]”
“Big rough hands (you could use them like a pillow.. That comfortable!)”

All completely true n so well observed n felt one could have been more right that these!
So it’s not fairy’s really sensible n keen observation so hats off to u....
I just hope the guys are listening:-)
:: Pearly :: said…
@ seno ...
loved 4 :)

happy womans day to you too! :)
mwah! >:D<
:: Pearly :: said…
@ annie....

mee toooo!! Waiting... *sighs*
:: Pearly :: said…
@ hey suruchi

hehe... glad you liked it :) ...
i just voiced it coz i was subjected to so much of trash talk abt men off lately.. felt the need to voice what i actually felt abt them! :)

i tried hard not to sound desperate or creepy o.O :| hehe

i hope they are listening too ! ;)

Anonymous said…
donno if my voice has the bass ya talkin bout... :p

and is it okay if the veins ya talkin bout aren't that predominant..:|

is 5'10" considered tall.. :P

I have everything else ya talkin bout.. :) should i be happy bout it or wat?

Thanks for the info, y dontya guys write a book on this topic.. :)

@ Seno: loved 6th.. ;)
Haddock said…
Observing people is a good trait.
Unfortunately there are only a handful who does that.
:: Pearly :: said…
@ anonymous.... i wonder who you are! :/


n ya you should be happy abt it :), i'm sure there are quite a lot of chicks who might be secretly observing those :P :P
:: Pearly :: said…
@ haddock

I second you. Totally. :)
BIG Omi said…
Well Nice post!

all I have to say is man u've amazing observation!

BTW guys love it when you gals hold their arm while walking and let them lead the way! Trust him he will cross you street safely!

I dunno but really wanna knw hw wud gal feel if a guy places a kis on the shoulder or side of forehead while in the car! ???
Anand M said…
Nice post Girl.. U know of lately I have seen only girls saying Bas%&*^, F*&^ &$$ and stuff like that about the boyz..finally there is a girl who is coming out of the stereotype…. Guyz are gonna luv this…Phew..:-)
:: Pearly :: said…
@ big omi
thank you... :)

and yes girls do like it if its on the shoulder/forehead :) :) :)
:: Pearly :: said…
@ anand ..
thanks dude!
thats exactly the reason why i wrote this in the first place... i was subjected to so much of man trash talk that i felt the need to do something about it..! ... girls arent innocent angels as well..
jaisi karni waisi bharni ;)
Anand M said…
See if you like this..!
Rohan said…
Aha Finally someone praising guys :D

Super observation that was girl, So its not only guys that observe girls with pin point accuracy :D

Made my day !! next time a girl stares i ll know that the radar has scanned 100% of the contents :P:P

Btw a girl looking a guy in the eye while taking is a BIG BIG TURN ON !:P
Anonymous said…
blah.. blah.. blah..

email me when ya post a new blog.. ;)
Sorcerer said…
observing human beings..
wow! thats a real cool thing to do.
I used to get topics to blog about from watching people.
Anonymous said…
ur off my hardcore feminists list pearly!...some1 you kno..:p:d
ps-well again its no offence being one:d
as some1 abv me said, walkin beside her, holding her hand ..lovd it dude ! nice writting keep going u could be a good writter..... plz visit at my blog it was good to see u at my blog....waits ur comments or compliments .....

Jai Ho Mangalmay HO
Roshni said…
had a big smile on my face while readin this 1...cud relate to every line written hehe..charmers do exist ;-)... double thumbs up!!
:: Pearly :: said…
@ rohan
while "taking" !?
i hope thats a typo! :D :D :D

@ anonymous... i really want to know who you are... just to ask what made you think m a feminist!? :D :D
keep visiting! :)
:: Pearly :: said…
@ vishal..
thanks buddy!
cheers! :)

@ roshni... *evil grin*
wink wink

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